We discussed how she feels tied down by so many things and it was apparent that she didn't have an outlet for her creativity and nothing that she was really passionate and excited about. We had a long conversation about things that inspire us and her face began to light up the more she talked. I watched the transformation as she went from looking vaguely pinched and stressed to glowing with excitement.
My heart grew 3 sizes that day!
Talking to her about things that made her enthusiastic was a big rush for me. I realized that I don't always need to try to get people to DO things to be happy, I can instead help them see the astonishing and wonderful qualities they possess and let them bounce ideas off of me until they find something that ignites their inner fire!
Today we'll be looking for a community theater to join together so we can relive the excruciating joy that is being a part of a production, and the high of riding the energy of an audience. I'll be using my contacts and resources as a Project Dragonfly instructor to find her a study abroad opportunity or some kind of field excursion that will let her expand outside of the life she's accustomed to. We'll be having more dates to keep each other inspired!
Another friend asked my yesterday why I write this blog. He asked me if it was because I love writing or if it's because I want people to read it. I think I write it so I can feel connected with people. I'm finding my happiness through connecting with other people.
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| Working out with friends and connecting with other people is how I'm finding happiness. |
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